A
single mother from the United States of America,
full of pride and accomplishment with both sons in university well on their
ways to a successful life, saves every penny for her “trip of a lifetime”
with one son to visit the other son studying in Germany. A single man,
living in Australia, recently retired – early – after decades of banking on
a trip around the world before settling into a retiree’s lifestyle. An
eleven-day bus tour around the country of
Germany in the spring of
2004. That is the setting for this picture. But there is so
much more!
The single mom, looking younger than her true age, spends all her time
with a tall, mature looking man with the same last name. The single man
deflects any attempt by the single mom to start a conversation. Eight days
pass with less than ten words spoken between them. The bus tour has taken
them through most of
Germany by now - the sea ports, the industrial region, Berlin, Dresden, and
they are now heading toward the Black Forest on “The Romantic Road” an area
full of medieval towns and castles. The afternoon brings them to their
overnight stop – a medieval town inside castle walls.
At dinner
that night, the man walks into the dining room, looks around the room for an
empty seat and sees only one table available. The single mom sees him walk
into the room and tells herself he will avoid her at all costs just as it
seems he has done on the other days. By necessity the man walks up and asks
if he can join the table. The mother smiles and introduces her elder son to
the single man. The man smiles and thinks – that man with her is her SON!
They converse over supper not remembering what they ate. The mom states
clearly, so he can hear, that she intends to watch the Town Crier walk
around the town after supper. She hopes the man heard as she leaves for the
centre of town. She went early, and he wasn’t there. Disappointed, she
wonders what is wrong with her, and heads back to the inn. On her way back,
he appears headed toward the town centre, but she can’t turn around and walk
with him, it would be too obvious, so she circles around to the centre. He
is standing with a group of tourists and leaves soon after she joins the
crowd. Once again she is disappointed. Then he calls her name! “Come see
this” he yells from across the street. Elated, she hurries over to see him
looking at a stork nest.
Soon the
Town Crier begins his nightly performance. Together they walk and follow
and laugh. At the last stop, he says to her, “Would you care to find the
stairs and walk around the castle wall?” Hopefully he didn’t hear the
eagerness in her willing affirmation. They climb together to the top as the
sun sets. The first sight they see is two swans swimming in the moat around
the castle.
So began their journey on their own Romantic Road… after months of emails,
phone calls and visits, they are now happily married.